A valuable lesson we have learned through the years is the power of our voice and words.  We learned that every human being longs for a measure of acceptance and recognition. We are not talking about the constant praise and adoration that self-absorbed people need.  Your thought-out words at the right time can not only build up a relative or friend, but also yield great reward.  Philippians 2:3-4 “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.”

As a married couple – we learned the value that each of us brings to our relationship. We realized early on that we did not want a boss or friend to be the primary encourager. We learned to recognize and appreciate each other and develop such a great relationship that we believe will be enduring and solid to the end. You will not find a greater advocate than what we are for each other.  We are strength joined to strength!

Appreciation takes only a moment, but can produce a prolonged effect for the person receiving it. Just because someone seems strong or has been walking in the Kingdom for quite some time, does not mean that they do not need to hear a word of encouragement from time to time.  Sometimes those in ministry (especially) need to hear the good things that are happening in your life – as well as the appreciation due them for being so supportive.

There is an anomaly that happens when we practice this – we end up being blessed and encouraged ourselves.  It is such an enigma – how do you get so much when you give? How do you get lifted up when you humble yourself?  How do you live such a great life when you die to yourself?

Only Yahweh!